How do I keep my mood positive, not achieving pregnancy.?
Well a little background.
I just had endometrosis surgery at the beginning of March my doctor released me back to normal activities including sexual ones. Me and my significant other have been trying to get pregnant for about 2 years. I found out that the endometrosis was what was causing us not to become pregnant. I have been struggling with not being a ‘good woman’ because I cannot be a mother. Or I cant seem to get pregnant. I dream about it I have tried all sorts of things. Now I cannot keep a positive attitude and it is becoming very hard. Please help..any suggestions are appreciated.
Also a link to more information on the disease
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Endometriosis
I try to count all the good things I have in my life (eg. husband who loves me) and tell myself that if it’s meant to be then I WILL have a baby one day.
If God decides that’s not the right path for my life then He obviously wants me to adopt a baby who doesn’t have a mother to care for them already.
It’s not the greatest consolation on the bad days but it helps sometimes. And just because you can’t get pregnant does not make you a failure as a woman – it is something beyond your control.
Hope this helps a little.
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