How do I distance myself from my boyfriend w/out hurting him or sacrificing the relationship?
I feel like I’ve lost myself in him. I used to rock climb, do yoga, go out with friends, go to dinner with my Dad, travel… I had such an exciting and fulfilling life. Recently, I took my rose colored glasses off and stepped back and looked at our situation. Everything has become centered around him b/c we’ve been living together. Omg! I need a break! However, I don’t want to play with his emotions, break his heart, or tell him that I need space… I just want to know how I can get myself back and still be a great partner to him?
Show him this post you made on here…… Tell him you love him and dont want to lose him or make him feel you want less time with him.
But make sure you repeat over and over how much you care and want to be with him…. and dont say BUT.
Just say, i wanna do more things too, like the old days. And you want him included. ie: take him rock climbing. Most of the time, he will probably say: “nah, you go ill see you when you get home gorgeous, have fun”
Its likely he will feel the same and get his mates over while your with your dad having dinner.
Its ok, talk and dont stop expressing your feelings or your relationshop will fall apart when you snap!
Be honest.
Dahn Yoga The Weatherly Inn in Tacoma Assisted Living Center (Rhonda Allison)
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